UPRISING Students:
· Big influence starts with
a small step.
So, what would happen if God
showed up and talked to you—out loud? What would you want Him to say? What would you not
want Him to talk about? Now imagine this: what if God showed up and told
you that your influence is unlimited? That the impact of your life can and will
extend farther than you ever dreamed? Would you be scared? Would you want to
run away? Would you have a ton of questions? Absolutely! And that’s what
happened to Moses. He probably didn’t think of himself as a guy that anyone
would pay attention to, as anyone of real influence, but God saw something in
Moses that he didn’t see in himself—the potential to lead. And as we take a
closer look at his story, we find that sometimes the only step we need to worry
about is the very first one.
How would you define the word influence?
Example
is not the main thing in influencing others. It is the only thing. ― Albert Schweitzer
UPRISING Parents:
Series
Summary for No Limits:
When you were little, what did you dream about
becoming? An astronaut? A ballerina? A professional wrestler? Whatever it was,
chances are it was something that you felt was important. Something big. That’s the thing about little kids—
they dream big because no one has told them that they can’t do something yet. They literally have no limits. But it’s
different when we get older, isn’t it? In middle school and high school we
start to see the areas we lack for the first time. We’re not the most popular
or influential. We aren’t the most talented. And eventually we start to wonder
if we can ever do or be anything significant. The big-dreaming days of our
childhood feel long gone under the weight of our all-too-limiting reality.
That’s exactly what happened in the life of a guy named Moses. With a tough
past and not many real skills, he had no reason to believe that his life would
be used do anything extraordinary. But after a few encounters with God, Moses’
perspective changed completely. He found that, with God, there is no limit to
what you can do.
ACTION POINT: Is your teenager encouraged or pressured by you? Find
out, and talk about how you can encourage more or pressure less.
Sometimes what we say and what our kids hear are two different things.
Often, it’s hard to know if they could use a little extra encouragement or a
little less pressure. Try asking your teenager if they’re pressured or
encouraged by you. Use a scale of 1-10, with 1 being not enough encouragement
and 10 being too much pressure.
Now use the same scale and evaluate yourself…do you encourage your
teenager enough or pressure too much?
Chances are you and your student will have different answers. That’s
okay! Don’t let it discourage you! Use it as a conversation starter. Afterward
consider showing your student how you answered. No need to make it a formal
meeting. And, this doesn’t mean that you have to give in when they say, “I want
you to bug me less about my math grade”. It simply shows them that you care
what they think and it gives you both a way to get on the same page as you move
forward.
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